The first meeting with a prospective match — often with both families nearby — can feel formal. The right questions turn it into a real conversation.
Values and everyday life
- What does a normal weekday look like for you?
- How do you like to spend festivals and holidays?
- What role do you see your parents playing after marriage?
- Where do you see yourself living in five years?
- How do you make big decisions — alone, or with family?
Work, money and growth
- How do you feel about both partners working?
- Are you a saver or a spender?
- Is there something you want to learn or achieve soon?
- How do you handle stress at work?
- What does a good partnership mean to you?
Listen more than you speak, and remember: the goal of a first meeting is not a decision — it is understanding.